Let's move somewhere, dude? - Sophie

            You know, I know a girl whose life is kind of a disaster. She hates it. She REALLY hates it but not all the time. 

            Let’s call her Veronica. Veronica feels sick when she opens the door of her so called “home”. Instead of experiencing freedom, reliance and respect - everything shrinks. In her parents eyes she’s still a five-year-old girl (event though she’s 20), who can’t have her own opinion, who doesn't have her own problems. They can’t understand that she is not a little girl, but a young woman in need to have her own space and privacy. Cause, you know, she is an adult and no one should forbid her the most fundamental things. She can’t even stand being in the same room with them!

            This situation lasts for about four months now. V. is not able to focus on anything, cause the only thing on her mind is to move out (Do you remember Knives from “Scott Pilgrim vs. the World”, saying: “amazing”? Try saying “moving out” the same way. Veronica always does it).

            It is that way because of so many reasons. I can't share them now. Maybe You could tell me something about your moving out? How did you do that, what arguments were the most reasonable and how did you deal with your parents overall? 

Thanks in advance!